A Confession

I hate to say it, I've avoiding saying it because I don't want to be the one complaining. So many people do and let's face it, it gets annoying hearing the same thing over and over. But I'm going to. Here we go. Brace yourselves. 

I'm over Winter. I'm done. The snow can go away now. 

I'm tired of bundling up myself and two kids to just walk outside the door. I miss walks with out multiple layers. I miss tank tops and capris and sandals. Oh how I miss sandals. I miss being warm and driving with the windows down. I miss pool parties and swimming and drinks on the deck. And I miss camping. Oh camping. I miss the nights under the stars and the campfires and the laughter with friends. I miss Summer. 

Now, And I'm going to say this clearly, I don't miss the extreme heat because I get headaches good and fast, but I sure do miss the rest. 

So Winter, you've had your fun. You've given us record snowfalls. I've made the best of you and have yet to let you win. You remember that Santa Shuffle I did back in December when it was -47? Ya. That. I win. Let's call it what it is. You've had your turn, now it's Summers turn. At least Spring. Just please, no more snow.

I'm ready for outdoor fun. 

My Sunshine

Ever since my H was born, B has always called her "Sunshine", and if she's upset or we are trying to soothe her, we sing "You Are My Sunshine" to her. She seems to enjoy it greatly.

For the last little while I've been playing around with crafts. B and I have been making hair clips, finger knitting scares and bracelets, making signs to hold Christmas cards on and making valentines crafts for her daddy. I'm feeling crazy crafty lately if you can't tell. 

I love Pinterest. Gives me great ideas and wonderful how-tos. Which is what brought along todays craft. I wanted to make something in relation to calling H Sunshine and found some fun ideas. Attempting to make it was important to me, but you can find endless ones out there to purchase off of etsy. This being one of many. 

So, B and I made this together. A canvas and paint and done. I put the writing on it today and it is hanging in H's room. I love it!

Now to start the next craft! 

Wedding Ring Love

To me, when you put on your wedding rings it symbolizes the commitment you have to your spouse. It's not only a sign for you both, but a sign for others to show that you are in a relationship with another person. 

I don't often take mine off; though there are occasions. If I'm cooking with chicken or mixing meat by hand, they come off. If I'm doing a vigorous workout or possibly hitting something, they come off. If I'm taking the girls swimming, I will leave my engagement ring at home, but wear my wedding band. And if I'm doing one of those darn mud races, which I've been known to do, they come off. 

 And they almost always are put immediately back on. I feel naked without them, they are a part of me. 

I once read somewhere that when someone is playing with their wedding bands it's their way of thinking of their spouse; and they don't often realize they're even doing it. Kind of neat. 

I know of people who rarely wear theirs for various reasons. Some make sense, and I can't judge them for it. For example, some don't currently fit, Some can't wear due to their jobs, Some can't stand jewelry but have other ways to display, whether it be a necklace or a tattoo. But I know of other people who choose to leave their wedding rings at home when they are going for a night out with the girls or guys. It allows them to appear single I suppose. But for what reason? If it's to score a free drink, okay....but do you need to leave your rings? If it's to go out and hook up with a stranger, I think there are further issues that need to be addressed. 

I don't want to comment too much as I don't know what goes through these peoples minds or what their relationship is with their spouse, but I can't help but speculate. 

I guess, for me, I'm 100% committed to my husband. If I go out with or without him and I am approached, I don't hesitate to say I'm married. I am. I love him. And I would never try to pretend like i didn't. Hence why the wedding rings stay on :)